Story Going to get a little personal with y’all here. Last year, I dated someone who I thought would be someone I could trust and be my true self around. I didn’t necessarily think they were “the one,” but I thought they might be around for a while. I wanted them to be around for a while. Then, one day, everything changed. As dramatic as this sounds, when he ended things, it felt like the world was crashing down around me. I had put so much hope, thought, and energy into this could-be relationship that when it came to a sudden end, I was devastated. I didn’t have answers. I didn’t know why, but I was forced to accept and move on. Cause as people will tell you if they don’t want you, why waste your time trying to force them to?